Is it the truth, that when a person is a vegetarian he has health and sexual longevity? The vegetarianism nowadays is known not only in the East but also in the West, and the modern fashion for it was caused by some trends of Buddhism and Crishnaism. But when this fashion is followed without thinking of result it can cause serious consequences. The vegetative food does not contain one of the important amino acids, which we are not able to synthesize any more. This ability can be restored only in the third generation of vegetarians. The most appreciable consequences of the deficiency of this amino acid are the symptoms of schizophrenia shown in an aggravation of extraordinary abilities and stories about space aliens. Besides the lack of this elements reduces normal aggression - ability to struggle actively for the best place in life and the best women. Therefore vegetarians in any ompetition usually lose people who eat meat.
The activity of sexual function depends on the conditions of a life. Under extremely adverse conditions it is blocked it is senseless to breed, when the own survival is under a threat. Our body knows neither about our income, nor about the exchange rate it "estimates" the situation from the structure of our food. The deficiency of animal protein, as well as long starvation, is regarded by it as a disturbing signal, and sexual activity is dulled. For men it results in the loss of sexual potentiality and the desire of closeness in general, and for women it results not only in the loss of ability to have sexual arousal and orgasms but also can cause long delays of a woman's cycle, and passing to a premature climax. Back to top
I fall in love with a Russian woman from Moscow, but she has a nine-year old son. Can there be problems with it? According to Russian customs a woman who has not been married to twenty five years old, carries in herself a complex of an unsuccessful woman and has few chances not only to make good her private life, but also to find decent work. And usually marriage in Russian families result in children. Therefore men, for the various reasons not looking for twenty years' girls, will frequently meet with similar questions.
If you have decided to take as a wife a woman with a child there are two variants possible: a child remains in Russia on the care of his father or relatives, or his mother takes him/her to another country to live with you.
In the first case the child should not change language, his school and to adapt to new conditions, but mother will miss him. She will constantly aspire to visit him in Russia or to bring to you on each vacation. It will demand from you not only patience, but also considerable money. Do not hope, that in due course it will pass, and she will simply forget about the child. The parent instinct is natural to the woman. If she is deprived of it she is often also deprived of many other female qualities. And you will hardly like such woman!
When you decide to follow the second variant, you can also face problems in Russia. Under the Russian laws on the departure of the child from the country the consent of the real father even if he did not participate in the maintenance and education of the child is required. And father can simply refuse to give it, or set the outrageous conditions. Besides, the child can be reluctant to leave his friends, relatives and native atmosphere. And it will be your task together with his mom to persuade him somehow.
Problems will arise also after crossing the border. If the woman can have some time in the beginning for adaptation to new conditions of life and can abandon work for some time, it is necessary for the child to continue education. And it is not so easy to be switched at once to another language, to join new school and to master another system of training. Problems can arise and in your new family. Having lost habitual wide communication in native language, the mother and the child can become isolated from all others and concentrate on communication with each other. If you will waste time and do not take measures quickly, it will be extremely difficult to come into contact not only to the child, but also to the wife later. Besides such isolation will have an adverse effect on the process of adaptation.
To avoid this situation, you will need to show a maximum of attention, patience and pedagogical abilities to become for the child in the best variant his new daddy, or at least his friend, instead of simply the husband of his mum. And it is an interesting and difficult task.
As you can see, there are enough problems. But if you liked the woman, and you have decided to create with her a family you will have enough strength and patience to cope with any problems.
How to be liked by Russian girls? Russian girls the same as women of other nationalities are very different. Therefore the universal answer to this question does not exist. But if to limit the question to the girls, who wish to marry a Western man then it is possible to give some quite specific recommendations.
Why do they want to leave the country where they were born and have grown? They are sure, that in the countries which for a long time were not shaken by global economic and political reforms, the life is more stable and quieter. Therefore in the man for the sake of whom they are ready to leave a habitual life, girls want to see a reliable, self-assured person who firmly
stands on his legs, who is capable to support and provide them, at least, for the period of adaptation.
So first of all show that you are capable to provide, at least, for yourselves. It is unessential to play a role of a billionaire and to cover fingers with diamond rings, but to pick up for yourself some decent things is necessary. In Russia the clothes till now are the important attribute of status and success. Therefore to produce a good impression on the girls who are interested in marriage abroad you need to pay attention to how you are dressed and not only at personal meeting, but also considering your photo. In a photo you should look a successful and respectable person. But do not be too overzealous, make your potential match feel, that in your life there will be a place not only for work and career, but also for her. The same concerns also your profile. You can write there not only about the tastes and hobbies, but also about the business. But do not transform the letter into the business resume or the report on the done work.
In correspondence place the main accents not on how you are remarkable, and not on how she is good, but on how it would be good to be together between you.
At personal meeting keep easy, confident, with status. There are enough charming idlers in Russia and so be different from them. But not be too serious also. Because if she will decide to live with you and go to another country, she will have to communicate only with you, and she should not be afraid, that it will be boring and lonely.
Do not litter money, getting into debts, but also do not save on trifles. The reveller, capable to waste a monthly salary for an evening, risks to create impression of a frivolous and unreliable person, but misers, shivering above each cent, are guaranteed to have failures. If in a number of countries ability to spend means carefully considered an important advantage in Russia avaricious people are not loved. Greed is considered one of the most repellent human qualities. The main motive of beautiful young girls, ready to leave their native country and to follow the man who is often much more senior than they to another country is to provide a worthy life to themselves and to future children. Therefore she should not doubt that she will not have to save on everything living with you and go by public transport and to elicit some small money from her husband on the most necessary purchases. Even if you are not sure, that exactly this girl will become subsequently your wife, do not regret about the money spent for searches and acquaintance. Consider your expenses as the capital investments, required for any serious affair.
But money is not enough. Show a girl a maximum of attention, present her with flowers, it is pleasant for any woman. Let the girl know, that in your life there will be a place not only for business and rest, but also for her personally. If she starts to tell to you about herself it is a good sign. Do not interrupt her, listen, even if not all from her story is clear and interesting to you. And the main thing if you really want to create family, instead of simply pleasant time, do not hurry her with sex. Back to top
Whether it is possible to define the character of a girl at first sight? Perhaps, it can be made also on a picture? The definition of the character from features, poses, movements and a manner of dressing is possible. These details are easy for finding out both at personal meeting, and on a photo. Everything in a person is interconnected, but exact diagnostics demand not only wide experience and observation, but also special knowledge.
I offer you a very simple and evident, but, nevertheless, really working system which, certainly, does not describe all female variety, but help you to define the basic character traits.
Imagine four geometrical figures:
A circle (fig. 1), a triangle put on its top (fig. 2), a square (fig. 3) and a vertical wavy line (fig. 4). Imagine, how these figures move. And now look at different women or their photos. With what of these figures does she associated more?
1) ROUND
These women have round features, plumpness, sloping shoulders, rather large soft breast and tendency to get a bit overweight. "Round" women do not stand aside by particularity and style in their appearance, their movements are relaxed, and their voice is soft. They are sociable and direct, but lazy and unpunctual.
To attract a ROUND woman, it is not necessary to show your status. Just be sincere, open, do not be afraid to tell jokes.
ROUND people are indifferent to luxury, but convenience are necessary for them. At home such woman creates a coziness and warmth and can sometimes indulge you with prepared by her wonderful supper. They are good mothers and can superbly communicate with children. But the main thing in them they are able to love and respect their man, unconditionally accepting his leadership.
2) TRIANGULAR
TRIANGULAR women have an athletic figure: wide shoulders, narrow hips, small breast, muscular slim legs. They are vigorous and mobile, their gestures are sharp, their gait is jumping up, and a voice is loud and sonorous. They like to show the superiority, not missing an opportunity to brag of prestigious things, and frequently behave defiantly.
Such women love strong and successful men. So to attract her put on the best things and avoid cheap cigarettes. "Do not litter" money, but let know, that you have them. Play on their jealousy, paying attention to other women.
In family life TRIANGULAR women are extremely exacting and arrogant. They want everything in the house to be of the best quality, and children are dressed "haute couture". She will demand much also for herself personally. It does not matter how much you would earn, it will constantly seem, that it is not enough. She will constantly compete with you for the priority role and will not allow to relax.
The typical mistake in relationship with TRIANGULAR women is to attempt to win and bridle them. The bridled "triangular" woman becomes uninteresting. Let her win you with variable success and it will keep her interest in you for a long time
3) SQAARE
SQUARE women are easily recognized by total accuracy. They avoid bright colors, extravagant hairdresses, do not swing hands and seldom raise their voice. They have narrow shoulders, wide hips and short legs. They are never late. In the man they appreciate reliability and compulsion.
If you want to be liked by them you need clean trousers and footwear, be punctual, do not tell dirty jokes and do not show attention to other women.
In family life SQAARE women are quiet, reliable and accurate. They are good mistresses, are able to spend reasonably means and if it is required and to save, patiently going through financial difficulties. Such woman will never make adultery and will not betray you, but they will also demand honesty and fidelity from you.
Typical mistake is the opinion that they do not accept anything new. But it is not so. SQAARE women require fresh impressions also, but they simply do not love impromptues. If you want to try something brand new discuss it in advance.
4)WAVY
WAVY women constantly change image, being thrown from one extreme to another extreme. But they can also "be calculated". Their proportions are lengthened, the body is flexible, their movements are plastic and maneric, fingers and a mimicry are extremely mobile. They repeat the same phrase in various variants, grinding and admiring it, and behave as so they are at theatre, being both actors, and spectators.
WAVY women appreciate eccentricity, intellectual and spiritual refinement. But, showing yourself in all beauty, won't help to win her attention. Give her an opportunity to show her advantages, show how good she is.
The WAVY women are poorly adapted to home life because practical everyday questions excite them too little. She needs constant attention, admiration and new impressions, unusual orders and the best cosmetics, so with her you will have a lot of additional charges. But with such women it is not a shame to be seen in a society.
The typical mistake with them is a conviction that their efforts to be liked means the special attitude to the man. Believing, that the woman already entirely belongs to him, the man overlooks to admire her on a regular basis, and the WAVY woman finds another advirer.WAVY woman finds another admirers. Back to top
I like women with excess weight. Is it abnormal? Of course if you are interested only in ladies, covered everywhere with centners of fat and suffering of a short wind you'd bettero address the psychoanalyst. But if you like active and healthy women with magnificent forms it is completely normal.
The concept of excess weight is mostly conditional. The standard of slim women has been imposed by advertising of various means and methods of loosing weight on which considerable money are successfully done. If somebody invented the tablets, capable to change the height of a person, the standard of it would be designated rather soon and the majority of people would not initially correspond to it.
The type of a body is a specific feature of each person. For one person it is normally to be thin, for another plump. Problems of superfluous or insufficient weight really exist, but, as a rule, it is the consequences of some diseases and it has a number of other symptoms.
If a person is healthy, vigorous, active and is able to be pleased his weight should be considered normal even if it is not stacked in the norms imposed by advertising. Whether you like slim ladies or chubby ones, it is just a matter of your taste.
Because of the fashion on slim girls, women with magnificent forms frequently remain unclaimed. However they have a number of advantages.
Chubby women are soft, benevolent, optimistic and sincerely sociable. They seldom enter conflicts, are capable to remove weariness and irritation and look very easily on many things. It is warm and cosy with them at home. Especially it is felt when the man comes home after a difficult day or conflicts at work .
Women A "with forms" practically never have problems with achieving orgasms, with pregnancies and motherhood. As opposed to slim girls who have not been adapted by the nature to motherhood, so they often have problems with conceiving a child and during all the period of pregnancy.
Plump women are good mothers. Possessing a natural child's spontaneity, they easily find common language with children of any age. Children of such mothers get ill much less often and usually do not suffer neurosis.
Besides, chubby women are able to love and really appreciate a man, to see the strong leader and the defender in him, instead of using his purse, showing thus their independence. They accept any signs of love and attention with sincere pleasure and gratitude.
